Love, Life

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Acceptam iubirea pe care credem ca o meritam.” ― Stephen Chbosky

RO: E normal, ca fiinta umana, sa fii afectat de alti oameni; Pentru ca oamenii vin si pleaca, pe toti ne schimba trecerea timpului, iar uneori persoana pe care o iubesti nu simte acelasi lucru pentru tine, insa nu poti sa invinovatesti pe nimeni pentru ca nu poti alege persoana pentru care incepi sa ai sentimente.

Cea mai mare misiune a ta in acesta situatie e sa nu te auto-distrugi prin a uita ca si tu esti special. Cand ai ochii rosii de la prea mult plans, dar zambesti si te comporti normal atunci cand oamenii din jur te intreaba cum te simti, draga, asta nu e iubire.

Cand trebuie sa renunti la placerile personale ale vietii, sau/si sa faci compromisuri referitoare la actiuni pe care nu vrei sa le manifesti, te rog opreste-te din a te mai mintii ca acest lucru e iubire.

Iubirea nu e un razboi, sau ceva pentru care trebuie sa gasesti scuze, si nici ceva care sa te faca sa spui “Doare, dar stiu ca e din iubire.”.

Viata e destul de scurta, iar asta e motivul pentru care ar trebui sa o traiesti frumos. Sa nu te opresti niciodata din iubit si din facut ceea ce te face fericit, nu e niciodata gresit sa iubesti… Asa ca, pana iubirea adevarata te gaseste respecta-te prin a iti hranii inima si sufletul cu actiuni si lucruri care iti ofera fericire.

In general, nici un lucru nou pe care vrei sa il faci nu are o data anume la care trebuie inceput. De fapt, o sa te simti mult mai bine daca vei face ce iti spune inima la acel moment. Ziua in care nu iti va mai pasa de opiniile neconstructive a celor din jur va fi ziua in care nu te va mai afecta nici o vorba si nici un gand negativ, pentru ca nu vei mai fii acolo pentru a le oferi greutate.

P.S. – Valorifica-te

P.S.S. – Si apoi trebuie sa realizezi ca trandafirii pot sa creasca din excremente, dar in final vor mirosi a trandafiri.

We accept the love we think we deserve.” ― Stephen Chbosky

EN: It is normal, as a human being, to be affected by other people; Because people come and go, we all change and sometimes the one you love doesn’t feel the same for you, but you can’t blame them because you can’t choose who you start to have feelings for.

Your biggest mission in this kind of situations is to not destroy yourself by forgetting that you are special too. When your eyes are red because of too much crying but you smile and act normal when people ask you if you feel okay, darling, this is not love.

When you have to give up on your personal life’s pleasures, or/and to commit yourself to something you never wanted, please stop lying yourself that it is love.

Love is not a war, or something you need to make excuses for, and neither something that makes you say “It hurts, but I know it’s out of love.”.

Life is pretty short and this is the reason why you should live it in the most beautiful was possible, never stop loving and doing what makes you feel happy; It’s never wrong to love… So, until true love finds you respect yourself by feeding your heart and your soul with actions and things you love.

You don’t have to have your first anything at any certain time. In fact, you will be much better off if you just do what your heart says at that moment. The day you stop caring what others think is the day their negative opinions don’t mean anything, because you’re not there to give them weight.

P.S. – Value Yourself.

P.S.S. – And then you have to realize that roses can be grown from excrements, but in the end they smell like roses.

semn

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